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The Big "O"?

My boyfriend and I got into an argument because He feel like he can not gratify me sexually. Its not that he's not doing a good available job,but the truth is I dont know how to have an orgasim. Is it something that you swot? Is it some type of medical condition? What is the problem? Can someone help me?

Answers: Ok, if you intuitively don't masturbate then you can't really oblige him out very much. What I would suggest if your against the belief of pleasuring yourself to get to know what feel good. Is honestly to agree to him masturbate you, making sure that he pays lots of attention to your clitoris. I would have to vote that the biggest block for a woman having the faculty to be comfortable, and that you think almost it. What you need to do if you'll consent to him do that for you or if you do it yourself is this. RELAX!! Use lots of foreplay, don't just soar the gun, tease respectively other, and enjoy the experience. breath richly and let him know what feel good and what doesn't through COMMUNICATION! TALK TO EACH OTHER! Not just does it make the experience better for you by relating him what feels polite but it will help him to know what to do and what does get the impression good. I don't know your age, but give somebody a lift the time to learn in the region of your vagina, HIM TOO! Oral sex is a GREAT tool, for many women but not adjectives!! AND ONLY if he knows what he's doing or you can totter him through it! Sex isn't about, GET IN, GET OFF, GET OUT! It's going on for communication,expression, feeling, pleasure, and relaxation. Don't receive discouraged if it doesn't happen right away, it can and does appropriate time! There are medical conditions that can affect that such as diabetes which inhibits blood flow, which CAN create a lack of the full sensation, also if your taking birth control or other medication. If your really interested there are TONS of articles that you can read by doing different search, being merciful and the willingness to be amenable.

Above all though, communicate beside each other and be tolerant. Your ability to be comfortable beside yourself and the situation plays a MAJOR role in your competency to Orgasm, CLEAR YOUR MIND! Stop thinking about it or other things such as getting caught, pregnant(wouldn't obligation to worry if you took precautions) or the math problem you couldn't amount out or your English homework. SO:
Relax, clear your mind, be comfortable, be patient, communicate, and call somebody names each other(foreplay)
It WILL crop up when it's right.
I didnt really understand this til i get older.

when you hold the bit O, your clitoris is swells, because it is stimulated. all your muscles on edge up, & all of a sudden it a moment ago happens , you dont control it not to come to pass,but you can control it to happen.

do you use foreplay , he's responsibe for getting you "ready'', some women are other ready , but both ya requirement to educate respectively othr abou t your bodies, i would suggest you get married 1st, it's so much better when you know that your committed to someone , & you can share your intermost resembling & secrets.

the intamicy is so much better.
hope this help.
A lot of the time the big "O" is mental.

Has he ever aroused you mental, Are you haveing sex just to please him and if you don't he will be in motion else wehere does he really turn you on. Is he satisifing his self first and leaving you not within yet?
There are greatly of questions here.

Do you love him but not within love with him in that is a difference.
Yes having orgasms can be well-read and girls usually learn them by self-exploration. Most women orgasm from stimulating the clitoris although other areas of the body can be sensitive plenty to pleasure to bring orgasm too.

You are best off principle yourself how to bring yourself to orgasm by masturbation. Basically you just meekly touch yourself and rub your clitoral area contained by small circles or up and down what ever feels best to you. Thinking of a role-play is good when masturbating. You may want to try doing this near ky lotion. And you may want to consider getting a vibrator.

What you want to do is experience what orgasms feel similar to and how to give them to yourself. If you can bestow yourself pleasure than it is soo much more enjoyable next to a bf.

Oh yeah..it's good to relay your bf it is Not his fault .. the reality is that Most women (about 70%) usually don't come from vaginal intercourse alone..it's just the route we are..the vagina is sensitive to about 4-5cm contained by only and nearby is usually not enough stimulation for orgasm to be possible.

So you and your bf both may want to experiment on ways of pleasing respectively other during sex. Good luck and hope this helps :)
Hi, I am a Pure Romance Consultant, but aside from that I am also a romance girl. Having an orgasim is not something that you swot to do. It just happen because of what your body is feeling. It is not a medical condition and near is not problem. Contact me at my email and we can talk more in the region of it if you like. Always lively to help.

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  • Vaginal gelatinous white stuff?

    okay so ya..i know all in the order of vaginal discharge but i just go to the bathroom and ..for no reason kinda only shoved my finger up there and when i took it out partially my finger was covered within white thick..clumpy..ably not clumpy but more thick stuff ..no smell at adjectives..no vaginal pain or itch.. or discoloration..my vaginal walls quality smooth and normal..newly suprised me i guess ive never seen that much past. I have be getting off..alot lately..conceivably 3 times a day for the recent past 3-4 days..i had not checked it till in a minute so i was assuming that it be discharge from that..is this normal..is that what it is more than credible?

    Answers: You have a dawn yeast infection . Go get some Monostat cream or tab and shove them up there to dissapate it back it becomes a aggravation. Make sure you douche more often especially after sex, your spell and after bathing. If it gets worse step to your doctor for a stronger medication.
    its normal, and its from the constant masterbation

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  • Can ovarian misery radiate as far up to the appendix nouns?

    I had a C-section May 31st, and am nursing, so I hold yet to enjoy a period, but I'm assuming that I could be ovulating. The spasm seems to move, but is right around the appendix nouns. I would think if it be my appendix I would be sicker. It's just approaching a dull annoying ache. I havent' have a period surrounded by over a year so maybe I lately forgot how crappy ovulation pains can be! I used to always find mittleschmertz ?sp, but I don't remember it being this far up. Could this possibly enjoy anything to do with the C-section? Thanks!

    Answers: Your ovaries are a ways up within there, plus it could of late be some gas, it may be your colon cramping , irratable bowel syndrome.

    Probably nothing to verbs about .
    No, ovulating affliction is only within the lower abdomen. Check beside your Doc. I had no sign of appendicitis, and sooner or later while I was taking a powernap my appendix burst...I woke up in excrusiating stomach-ache and had to be taken to the emergency room...

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  • My girl friend's breast ooze milk ?

    Me and my girl friend usually have sex near all the protections. Just beforehand few days she told me her breast oozes milk adjectives the times. Is it normal ? or what's the problem next to it ?

    Answers: I've done this before for no point at all, i go to the gyn, & he said a little is commonplace , if it was plentifully my hormones would be off.

    I don`t know she needs to grasp her hormones checked. It doesnt take long.
    Invest within an over the counter pregnancy test. at hand is no problem with the breast. It is functioning according to manufacturer spacifications.

    You two ought to start eating more fish and other brain food.
    Sorry - she's pregnant.

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  • Breast Hurt. What Can It Be?

    So my breast have be hurting for the past few weeks. Not a moment ago by their selves but whenever theres almost any kind of pressure involved. Not on the nipple cut...just around it...especially on the sides approaching near the ribs. Its not pregnancy....i newly had my term a like 2 days ago.

    Does anybody know what it could possibly be?

    Answers: My breasts used to hurt so impossible that i had to wear those specialty bras, ya know that they fit you into, & cost a small fortune?

    afterwards a nurse told me about vitamin E. & to steal 1000units a day, They 've be better ever since. I have some fibroids, & caffeine irratated them, but very soon they 're okay !

    hurray , vitamin E. & it's also good for your coat & nails.!
    Are you sure you are not pregnant?

    .. If you simply had your length it is probably from that, it will go away.
    What's wierd is i've be having equal problem especially on the side and near the arm pit kinda, someone told me it could be infection and something to do next to glands, if you find out let me know.
    Thanks
    Two philosophy... first one could be fibrocystic breast disease which is actually not really a disease, but a condition that consist of non cancerous lumps contained by the breasts. So many women enjoy it, but I don't think they adjectives know it because their symptoms are not as bad as others. I enjoy suffered with it since i be sixteen. I hate it because I am so sensitive that I enjoy to sleep with my bra on or I will stir up in discomfort. If you drink a lot of caffeine or put away chocolate you may notice that the subsequent day you will own a lot of misery in your breast sometimes even shooting discomfort. If you give yourself a breast exam you should be aware of lots of little lumps all over. It's not the worst point in enthusiasm but it can be pretty bad at times.
    My second thought is (don't laugh) gas. If you chew a Tum or two and the strain goes away consequently it was probably trapped gas. Which would be better for you than the other.
    Good luck and consent to us know what you find out. :)
    breast cancer

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  • How long can you be in motion through puberty because i am 19 and i still surface close to i am going through it?



    Answers: well, first of adjectives puberty hits on average at age 12. you may still feel approaching you are going through it because you have a cycle every month and your hormones will contantly stir up and down. you will deal near pms and then you will concordat with post mentrual cylce sometimes. you might cry 2 wks formerly, be irritable during and cry again after. you are on a rollercoaster. i don't think men own it as hard. I don`t know you should go to a local robustness food store and see if there are herbal remedies you could nick to help alleviate some of the symptoms.
    Although near is a wide extent of normal ages, on average, girls instigate the process of puberty about 1-2 years previously than boys, and reach completion contained by a shorter time.

    Girls attain adult point and reproductive maturity something like 4 years after the first physical changes of puberty appear.

    In contrast, boys hurry up more slowly but continue to grow for just about 6 years after the first visible pubertal change.



    The following is probably more than you ever wanted to know give or take a few puberty...

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Puberty
    how do you know you are in puberty first of adjectives.. does it send you some signal out everyday night/morning.... ?

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  • Poping your cherry?

    how many times do you hold to have sex contained by older for it to grain right

    Answers: It all depends on the human being and the sex!

    You can pop your cherry before sex too! It happen sometimes by accident!

    Some culture find it's pinless and easy, others find it hurts several times in a row until they receive used to it! It depends how experienced the guy is!

    Make sure you're relaxed, wet, the guy is docile and has a condom! After a few times most girls would be used to the morale. Some enjoy it straight away, some never really approaching it.
    I never had a problem, but I know copious women do. From what I know it may take 2 - 3 times at the most.

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  • Endo + anyone gotten pregnant?

    My doctors think I may own endo, as I have most of the symptoms. I be wanting to know if there are any citizens out there that hold had or get Endo, and have be able to acquire pregnant. Please help!

    Answers: I enjoy had discouraging endo for years, made worse after my first then second pregnancy.
    There are simple ops that can assist to remove some of the worst of it making it easier to fall pregnant, also to weaken the symptoms.

    I had no problems beside my first, but it took a little longer to carry pregnant with my second.

    You want a understanding gyne or gp who can aid you through it...
    Good luck, i am sure you'll be fine
    I am assuming you are asking about endometriosis?
    I hold endometriosis and haven't had any luck as of on the other hand we have be ttc for about 7 months. However I own 2 very close friends who enjoy confirmed endo and one is 4 months along with her 1st and the other have a 12 month old daughter who be conceived the 1st month they started trying.

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  • Hysterectomy At 39 due to Endometriosis and BRAC1 Gene?

    I had my surgery on the 26th of Sept. I am recovering economically. I getting a little blocked up due to the dull pain medication. Has anyone got accepted wisdom on good ways to go and get around this

    Answers: I'm glad you're recovering well! I'm have a radical hysterectomy on October 29th but mine's for cancer.

    Anyway, for the constipation try drinking a LOT of sea and apple juice. Eat foods illustrious in fiber. Also try a stool softener.
    Good luck!
    stool softeners, hike, drink plenty of fluids.

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  • Females or doctors please?

    I have a spot literally right to hand the left side of my vagina. It's not a piece of the vagina, but it's in the crease so to speak. It's really pink and it looks a short time swollen. It hurts to have things close to the elastic on underwear touch it. What are some possibilities of what this is? It's be like this for just about a week but the pain intensified today.

    Answers: It's credible a cyst (possibly a boil). Do NOT squeeze it or anything of the sort.
    Take a hot bath (but not too hot) beside Epsom Salts. If it doesnt open it up after trying that once, see your doctor.
    Again, with the sole purpose use the hot water surrounded by the tub to try and open it but do not poke or squeeze it.
    You should probably google "diseases of the vagina" or womanly medical abnormalities, pics of venereal disease etc.
    Always google for pics so you can compare to what it looks resembling.
    It sounds like you requirement to get the the doctor ASAP!
    It may be an outbreak of herpes or something. While you are going thru this, you may call for to wear "orderless panty liners" this may help to drain to pain. Also I suggest that you rinse your undies separately from your family's especially if you have kids. Good Luck!!
    You could hold a hair within grown that was rubbed by your underneath ware. if just one. or an infect blade bumb
    I would have it check out by a doctor it could be a Herpes also? any point is possible in that direction.
    Genital Herpes: Genital Herpes -- AOL Medical Encyclopedia

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  • I'm super thirsty adjectives of the time. Could this be a symptom of something?



    Answers: Hun, you are probably dyehydrated. Try drinking water and Gaterade/Poweraid singular... If this does not help, see your doctor, it could be something more seveare......


    Mild to moderate dehydration is predictable to cause:

    Dry, sticky mouth
    Sleepiness or tiredness — children are probable to be less alive than usual
    Thirst
    Decreased urine output — fewer than six showery diapers a day for infants and eight hours or more lacking urination for older children and teens
    Few or no tears when crying
    Muscle poor standard
    Headache
    Dizziness or lightheadedness
    Severe dehydration, a medical emergency, can cause:

    Extreme thirst
    Extreme fussiness or sleepiness within infants and children; irritability and confusion in adults
    Very dry mouth, skin and mucous membranes
    Lack of sweating
    Little or no urination — any urine that is to say produced will be dark washed out or amber
    Sunken eyes
    Shriveled and dry skin that lacks elasticity and doesn't "bounce back" when pinched into a fold
    In infants, sunken fontanels — the soft spots on the top of a baby's head
    Low blood pressure
    Rapid heartbeat
    Fever
    In the most serious cases, delirium or loss of consciousness
    Unfortunately, thirst isn't always a reliable assess of the body's need for wet, especially in children and elder adults. A better barometer is the color of your urine: clear or light-colored urine means you're ably hydrated, whereas a dark ashen or amber color usually signals dehydration.
    insatiable thirst along with frequent and urgent urination could be a sign of diabetes. if you are have any type of vision problems or extreme fatigue, or severe abdominal cramps please own your sugar checked immediately surrounded by an emergency room if you have to.

    dehydration or several other possibilities come to mind

    try to find a clinic that will give you an annual check up and make conversation all your symptoms over beside a physician.

    try drinking water and no soda or caffeine. if you are drinking more than 1/2 your counterbalance in ounces (130 lbs divided by 2 would be 65 ounces of dampen a day) then you entail to figure out why. carbonated drinks and sugar lace drinks do not quench thirst. and caffeine depletes your body of hydration cause you to need to drink more.
    It could be ,
    possibly that your anemic,
    diabetic.
    or some medicine you may be on.

    I'd jump to get it checked out.

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  • Our Friend T0M QUESTION (time of month)?

    When i was younger during my peroid i use to gain really bad cramps! i be determined unbearable ones. When i turned 15 i lost my virginity to my boyfriend (who i have been dating since the age of 12) Im not Sexually Active, He be the only guy i enjoy ever been next to like that, Anywho. i know that once we acquire older our bodies exchange. i am now almost 20 years matured and sometimes i have no fruitless cramps, if i do get cramps i can toy with them, and sometimes i dont get cramps at adjectives!! Did the whole loosing my virginity play a chief role in varying those bad cramps, or is that over the years your interval or PMS symptoms change? Im only curious.

    Thanks
    x0x0
    Gabby

    Answers: The sexual activity you experienced more rapidly in your go has (and had) no pose on your menstrual cycles in any means of access. Your body is just maturing, as you made facts of, and will continue to do so for the rest of your vivacity.

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  • "What's the best method for removing massive amounts of chest hackle?

    " My bra itches something terrible beside it all!"

    Answers: Laser quill removal. It is permanent and not mortified.
    Did Lucy have too much coat. Is that why you deleted her? LOL
    (((Beano))) Have a bald blessed day.
    Kait
    Waxing is the with the sole purpose way to be in motion. I've had it done anywhere I hold unwanted hair, and I'll never look vertebrae.

    Best of luck
    Wud?LOL XD
    Just do permanent spine removal...
    i would have to say-so wax it that will make it look better than shaving, but shaving wont hold any pain involved but its ur choice
    What evil human being put you up to this??
    try nair. and I love the picture. it's so sweet. :)
    Just braid it into a pony tail.

    That's what I do.
    I think this have been asked back, and the answer was use an electric sander. {{{Beano}}}

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  • Really big fetal heart rate?

    I'm 8 weeks pregnant and had a virginal ultrasound today. The doc said the rate is 320 and it may be a partial mole as my hCG is really large. too. 320 is really high. Has anyone specified any case near hear rate >300?

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    Answers: I have no experience beside this but have a association to a site that may have even more information that can backing you: http://forums.obgyn.net/pregnancy-birth

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  • I have a csection four weeks ago, and I hurt myself trying to bring my son down the stairs?

    yesterday, I was contained by pain, so I took some prescribed Motrin early today and now I touch better but I can still feel some pulling sensation and it still hurts but not as unpromising, should I call my dr

    Answers: most credible fine. however if this pain presists afterwards of course stir to the dr. after my 2nd c section i be doing too much and ended up getting a hernia, from i guess lifting. appropriate it easy..remember 6-8 weeks freshly to heal, and it take several months before you wont quality pain. truly my c section be 17 months ago and if i lay a certain approach it still hurts.
    I have have two c secs and the last be 4 years ago and still if I do something new , approaching exercising i can feel it verbs.
    Don't forget you have deeply been cut within half.. when the docs put it adjectives back again it isn't contained by exactly the same spots and it is bound to hurt and verbs for quite a while.
    But you should be protected rather than sorry and own it checked.

    Not to mention take it unforced......your a new mum who have been through a through operation...take prudence of yourself

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