14, Just Lost my Virginity.?

I am a 14 year old girl and yesterday my parents went to run errands for about 4 hours. I stayed home. I am a freshman, and I have alot of senior guy friends. I have only ever kissed a guy until yesterday. I invited this 17 year old over to my house and we messed around which soon lead to sex D: I rgegret it SO much and I feel like such a ****. He was also a virgin so I know I didn't attain an STD and he pulled out after he got all the way contained by because I complained about the pain. I know my body is healthy but, I purely am so depressed. We promised to keep this between us. I told my bestfriend who I know won't tell anyone, but I am so worried he will tell and I will acquire this bad reputation.

If you have anything rude to say, please don't right to be heard it. You chose to read this.
All I am asking is what I should do, and if anyone has any experiences of their own. Ag, Idk what to do.

Thanks(:
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Don't worry the same thing happen to me I regret it soo much ur not pregnet if he stuck it in once and pulled out he didn't ehacutlate he porbably won't tell anyone becaues it was scarcely sex no afense ur not a **** I no kids who had sex yuonger then u just run. Nice hot shower put on some pjs and watch a movie lay in bed becaues to have sex u entail to be emotionaly and phiscally ready! Emotionly u have to deal beside the fact of what u did n phically ur body needs to be ready u should linger to find some1 u love n he loves u n make sure your ready don't worry ur not a ****! And idk y they r relating u to eat healthy/ me I lost it to a guy I hung out once with n I felt discuting beside my self but I put my life on track your gonna feel gross talk to the guy schoolbook him or I m him " that's less akward" n ask if there's anything between u 2 see if it was worth it just try to be haopy n dawdle! Hope u feel beter Source(s): Same thing happened to mee
Just to be safe get a pregnancy test from the pharmacy their really cheap and check yourself contained by about a week no condom even if he pulled out their is such a thing as pre-*** which carries sperm hope he be the right guy and sticks by your side if not and it gets out don't be ashamed to flat out tell whoever you be a virgin you will be respected and not put down! Source(s): dad of two girls
when u asked him the question about pregnancy, reflect about it. if he moved to another city, he wont take care of u and ur tot. so u have to think about it. u shouldn't enjoy even had sex without birth control. YES it was a hugely stupid mistake. But u do have to live. learn. and laugh. im 14 2 and hold gone through something similar, but i dint give it up.
i lost my virginity at 13 now im 16 to a boy i barely knew.
but i be smart enough to use a condom.
remember the withdrawl method is not 100% most people get pregnant from that.
so if your gonna be sexually influential get on the pill a.s.a.p.
also wait 2 weeks and take a home pregnancy experiment
hope i helped
its fine.. don't be embarased.simply be careful about your diet.
i did the same a few weeks ago with someone i love and loves me. i dont regret it but the condom split and i have 2 have a termination. it doesnt make me a **** cuz it was not next to sum random guy i had known 4 10 mins. shift 2 a health clinic they will give u a 3 examination. gd luck x
Please dont worry :) There is nothing I can right to be heard to help you feel better about this. Its so assured to get carried away in the moment.
When I was 15 I lost my virginity to this guy I didnt even find remotly attractive, we freshly got caught up in the moment and it happen. I regretted it as soon as I got home and I just kept thinking about how stupid I be and felt so used.
The guy I had sex with told some friends..who told others and eventually everyone be asking me about it. I didnt know what else to do so I denied it to the ground and told people I didnt know what he was conversation about. He had no proof we had sex so empire just forgot about it.
1 year ago I started dating my current bf. We waited 11 months to own sex and it was very special :) Dont let a unpromising experience like this worry you.I know how upset you are but it is not the end of the world.
Please be wary x
not to be rude, but just acept it b/c you can't take it pay for. just make sure that the next guy is really special.
Did you wear a condom? And in truth even if he is a virgin you can still get a STD from him. Please tell me you used a condom, because even being contained by you for 1 minute can get you pregnant.
whats your question here?
yes as expected you lost it..!!
You arent a **** for losing your virginity at 14. Society may believe that, but I dont.
However, it was a HUGE mistake not using a condom. You have to use a condom if you dont want to get pregnant or return with an std. Many guys will say they dont have anything, but they may have an std that freshly isnt showing symptoms.
wow..
ok i'm not trying to sort you feel bad but this dude wasnt even your boyfriend...?
and to make it worse you two didn't even use a condom
are you on birth control?
whether you are or not the first article you need to do is realize whats done is done, whatever happens surrounded by your life becomes PART of your life and whether for the better or worse it teach you lessons. this was a big lesson.

the next item you need to do is consider pregnancy.
even tho he pulled out right away there is a chance of you mortal pregnant. i think you'll have to wait a bit i'm not sure how this type of piece goes but you really do need to pinch a trip to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test Source(s): good luck, and i hope you can accept what happpened and clutch responsibility for your child if you are pregnant. if not, you learned a valuable vivacity lesson. to the person a few questions below me you can get pregnant even if he didnt ejaculate


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