Premarital Sex Question...?
Any opinions or experiences on the subject??
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honestly, i ponder its okay to have sex before marriage as long as you hold protection and you know youre ready and making a decision according to what you want.
bascially nothing will surface to you. besides you would lose your virginity, but it isnt like a guy wont marry you or that someone will dislike you.
you wont ever become virgin-tight again, but you can kind of redeem yourself/revirginize yourself.
its all your choice hun
If you Plan on staying pure until marriage then more power to you honey! I am a christian too and believe me if you lurk to have sex until you are married it will be so much better. I was like you a freshmen and as you would expect you will want to fit in, but just because you think that everyone is have sex does not mean that they really are. Others will probably try to get you to do it, but honey stick to your guns, because once you have sex, by my beliefs unless you are raped you can't redeem yourself. Yes it is sin, but it is the type that you can stay away from more than others... you will also discern better about yourself in the long run if you don't have sex. Good luck on your first year of glorious school! And have some fun, because those four years will be some of the fastest of your life :)
i think god will forgive and you can be re celibate if you truely change and ask for forgiveness
but if someone is impatient and wants to do it afterwards ask for forgiveness, then idk.. thats not really what god would want us to do
Sure, citizens have different views on when to have sex. My inference is to have it whenever you're truly ready to, and to have sex near the right precautions, as well as within in a pious relationship that's pretty solid.
A lot of people think differently, and I get that.
You really can't REDEEM yourself, i parsimonious, once you have had it, there's no going back. That's why its such a big judgment!
You can never become a virgin again. If someone says it doesnt matter- they are lying! I went to a sex-ed church military camp this summer (yes it was semi-awkward) but it was very interesting. Do you want to enjoy sex with someone, and then when it comes your wedding dark you will just be giving him what you have left, you are his 'sloppy seconds'? There is solely one thing that you can give your husband that no one else can furnish him, and that is your virginity. A true christian gentleman will respect you for waiting. - and as for just giving surrounded by, try masturbation ;) not a sin, not even mentioned in the bible.
I personally don't dream up it matters if you wait or not, it's a personal choice. I wouldn't do it with newly any guy (or girl) make sure that you really do love ther person and have strong mood for them but theres nothing wrong with sex before bridal.
I am 24 and a virgin but not because of religious reasons. i just wanna do it near someone i love and maybe marry. Once u loose virginity,u have lost it. there is nil like redeeming a virginity. its all bullshit to make u be aware of better. once its gone its gone. its not about physical virginity, u can always get ur hymen restored and be a virgin again. Its more of a mental entry and ur self respect and beliefs. The only reason people surrounded by Islam get married early is because they know that its hard for population who are 19-23 to control not to have sex, and since that religion is very very much against pre connubial sex so they get married around 21-22.
I've seen two TV shows where this happen.
All I know is you can do it, not clear on the hows.
You know what the Bible says about pre marital sex. It's frowned upon. However, if you are a Christian as you speak you are then you know you are not expected to be perfect. If you go ahead near it and have sex you are not condemned to hell for it. Jesus took care of that burden for you. there is no route to ever get your virginity back once its gone
well if you are mentaly and pysically prepared! God will understand that you love this guy and you know he is your forever!
i don't think premarital sex is bad as long as you are not being promiscuous or have multiple and random partners.
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