So do you girls suppose this is a turn sour?

Im an 18 year old Male and I have a little problem call Hypospadias. Its a small condition where the end of my Urethra is on the shaft of my Penis instead of the Head. Now its not in the middle or anything, its in reality very close to where it should normally be. Its on the bottom of the boss of my Penis. It doesnt impact my personal life but it does make me very over-sensitive when getting into any new relationship. Ive only had sex once, and Ive be in atleast a dozen relationships that COULDVE been sexual but werent because I was too afraid. Ive go to the Urologist but he said that since Im 18, a surgery would likely not be able to fix it so I should just read aloud they screwed up my circumcision when I was younger, which is what I had done.

So, what do girls think around this? Honest answers please.

Answers:

If a girl really cares about you it shouldn't event. I don't think that either a penis or a vagina are much to look at when they are so called "normal" It doesn't turn me on or bad to look at a penis. I just like being beside my husband in a sexual way. Women normally aren't the ones who are stimulated by looking at bareness it's normally guys. Women like to be stimulated physically. No to say that nearby aren't any exceptions to this rule cause there are. But back to the point when someone really care about you it doesn't matter about that stuff. They will adopt you totally inside and out.

Honestly, some women are shallow and will care, just as some men are. But to me, it wouldn't matter. Everyone looks different. People should adopt differences. People come in all different shapes, sizes, and colors. If everyone looked the same, the world would be a pretty boring place don't ya regard as?
I don't think it's a problem. Women like confidence. You need to adopt your body before you let a woman accept it.
You're fine hunny. Be proud of who you are. You stipulation to love yourself before you can truly let someone else love you.
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It wouldn't bother me. Confidence does help when it comes to getting sexually close with a guy, but this isn't a problem. It doesn't seem similar to it would cause any problem other than you being self conscious of it. If I be you I would explain it to a girl before see sees it, like more than a afternoon before, that way she can process what's going on and feel more comfortable next to it.

Nah, I don't ruminate it makes a difference.

I have a friend next to that issue. I'm gay and I know you didn't ask guys but I would see it as something incredibly unique. I think it's pretty cool, I mean as long as it's not cauing you any problems.

-Connor

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