Abortion bill sent to my house?
I was putting her ipod back surrounded by her room so nothing would happen to it,[that would be the end of the world]
when i found two open envelopes in her room, addressed to me, from some address i have never see before.
I thought maybe she took them by mistake, and since its MY name on the envelopes, i open them.
Inside each was a $500 bill from a private clinic, with date a few months apart, requesting payment for the abortion services.
In the same area, i found 700 dollars.
After i found these things, i fixed there must be more things i don't know about, so i conducted a search of her room.
I found crack cocaine or meth....i can't update the difference, its crushed.. I found alcohol, pipes, and i found marijuana.
Good hiding places too. Like in the head of a stuffed animal.
After realising she is a liar, i call the house of the friend she is supposed to be at, only to be informed that she hasnt been there contained by over 2 months.
Here are the problems at hand.
1.She is 15 and having sex, god knows where on earth
2.She is possibly using abortion instead of birth control.
3.She has $700 from god knows where
4.She is doing drugs.
5.She is doing drugs while pregnant!
6. I did not find any condoms D=<
7.This is not the monster i raise! Im mortified! We talked about sex. We talked just about abortion, and we talked about drugs.
Heres what i need from you,my fellow parents
1. How do i save myself from going insane when she walks through that door
2. How do i keep myself from going insane when she walkes through that door
3. How do stop this little monster from continuing her life threatening and morally wrong events
4. How do i even bring it up
i wish a manuel came with these kids, I don't know the proper track to handle this one. My mother would have beat me and locked me surrounded by my room until they legally couldn't, but I don't think that is a massively good plan of action. I don't know what a good plan of accomplishment would be either.
Answers:
I would sign myself up for the asylum, because that girl is going to drive you crazy. I dream up you should sit her down and just be honest with her. That's what my mom would do with me and i appreciated, because I know then she saw me as somewhat of an adult.. make sure you use the word disappointed.... they'll embed within her head more than mad or upset.
Talk to her gently, and ask her if you can help her. Explain her the danger to go to jail. She could be selling some drugs to make money for the abortion. You should form her mind to change countries, with somebody you know, or else, explain to her that they can damage her if she stops selling the drug. If you have other relatives in another country, consider sending her after explaining it to her gently, until you consider your move too. And transmit her not to tell anybody about the move, as the gang can follow her and even kill her, I hope not.
Sit down and talk with her just about it calmly. If she gets all protective or if she starts to get offensive then it is ok to put on a pedestal your voice too.
DON'T BE A PUSHOVER!
My friend's sister got into all that stuff and her mom forbid her from having any social enthusiasm; she was not aloud to go to anyones house or go anywhere but university. And her mom was to be informed if she was not at any one of her classes. She finally decided to bring back help and eventually quit with the drugs.
This will not be easy, but it will be easier than watching your kid gain herself into all sorts of trouble.
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