(girls simply please) i obligation aid!?
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ok im really sorry tell your mom and dad that you did get rap ( if you havent already ) tell them that you are pregnant and ask for help and again im really really sorry that this happen to you im 12 too but that is horiable
If you do not want anyone knowing you were raped i.e. your business. I am sorry that happened to you, no one should have to stir through that. Have some info, it's is yours to do with what you will.
This is your body and you have the choice of whether or not you want to be pregnant. Give this a lot of thought and see where on earth you stand. If you want to keep this pregnancy you must tell your parents right away so you can get prenatal aid, young girls and teens have a higher incidence of miscarriage and preterm labour, so prenatal care is very important. If you want an abortion you own the right to not tell your parents and do it alone but I will tell you from personal experience that an abortion is not something one should go through alone but that's your choice. Think capably about what you want to do, come to a decision either method and get it done. The sooner you got the abortion the better, the sooner you start pre-natal care the in good health your pregnancy will be.
If you go to a Planned Parenthood clinic that has a low-income program it can be FREE. 1-8OO-230-PLAN (1-8OO-230-7526) to find the Planned Parenthood clinic nearest you. Since you are so far underage, I am sure they will do a termination for free especially if your parents have no money for it.
You own the choice between the pill (which can be taken up to 11weeks, at home or at a friends house) or the vacuum method (in clinic procedure). Personally I used the pill method so I could be at home with my husband but some women want to have the surgical, so it's done and over with when they disappear the clinic.
If you are underage you may want to check this site out to see about parental consent laws and whatnot. http://www.sexetc.org/state Even if it says you obligation parental consent, you don't. Call PP and tell them you cannot tell your parents; by law, a judicial bypass must be available to those minors who freshly cannot get their parents/guardians permission. A judge signs the parental consent acting as a de facto guardian.
I respect that it is your choice and take to mean that you are probably doing what's best for you - whatever you decide. If you want/need to talk roughly it or haven't understood something drop me an email.
It is entirely possible to have an abortion and not feel guilt because you know it was the right thing to do.
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~Pro-Choice Momma; Have have an abortion <no regrets> and I have a 8 month old daughter <no regrets>. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsSQiazUv… Source(s): yourbackline.com For pregnancy option counseling that's unbiased.
You need to think going on for this.
Do you really want that commitment?
A baby is SO much work.
You are only twelve years old, even when my sister have her baby at sixteen she regulary broke down in tears because she couldn't handle the stress of have the baby at such a young age. You also need to assume of the baby, it's not going to have a good enthusiasm if you are away with school. Is it?
If your parents can't afraid that, how can you expect them to pay for the babies clothes, food, bed, etc?
Plus, your body hasn't developed much at adjectives yet, at only twelve. You'll have to live next to huge stretch marks and your body most likely won't be able to control the dramatic amend, so the baby may have some problems. Whether it's small in size or doesn`t matter what.
You should go to your doctors, it should be free and ask what the best advice would be.
If you think you are set for it keep it . Or you could try a open adoption so you can still see your baby and not enjoy to take on the responsiblity Source(s): Personal experince
OMG so sad! You were rapped! :(
But don't slay the baby let it live. Source(s): CRY!
Then you have to consider adoption. Having the baby and after giving it up to a different home.
rapped and pregnant at 12- ouch. You can keep the infant if you like but you need to have a chore like babysitting and if you can't than put the baby up for adoption. just do not own abortion! Source(s): 14 yr old lol ( virgin still) ( I hoped I never get rapped)
go to a teen clinic. they can give support to you.
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