Embarrassed contained by the bedroom?

I'm 18 years old, 5'5 and 105 I've had issues next to my looks all my life (BDD) but there's no actual way to fix it. I know I shouldn't be but I am embarrassed plentifully of the times when in the bedroom. I've never liked my body I am especially insecure so having someone else look at me is just a process of making me feel uncomfortable.
What I would want is some direction on how to stop being shy. I do get fully exposed in the bedroom but when a guy tries to undo my bra and bear it off I always cover my boobs I newly feel insecure, I feel approaching the guy is only thinking negative things in the region of my body.
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Answers:    I know exactly how you feel
Just try to be happy near what god and your parents gave you
Start looking at the positives
If the guy dosn't appreciate what you look like consequently he dosn't deserve to be looking at you
Keep your head up hunny.
AAGGGHHH!
i think adjectives women hate their body, or at least a chunk of it, kinda like most guys are nervous the first time they show a girl near penis,
ive had the same issue

wen ur alone surrounded by ur house next time, lock the doors close ur windows, shift around with ur daily deeds COMPLETELY NAKED, do the dishes, watch TV, clean cook, do watever u do every other daytime

this sounds crazy, but ur first step in overcoming being shy, is to go and get comfy in ur own body

p.s.- if hes with u, he like u and ur body.
If the guy didnt like your body he wouldnt be with you. I also dont close to walking around naked or leaving the lights on alot .. but from experience .. the guy customarily LOVES your body when you HATE it! If you're insecure with your boyfriend/husband you need to bargain more before having sex. If it's simply some random person afterwards stop having sex with them..
ok if he think negative things about your body he wouldn't be taking your bra past its sell-by date lol just stick those boobies out and have fun! :o) Guys are more than thrilled to look at any woman's body. Unless you are horribly disfigured, just let it dance and have fun!.
Well the bigger question here is, is why are you sharing your body near a guy when you can't accept it for yourself? I don't mean to gross that sound harsh, but I enjoy always been told and be aware of now as well, that you must cram to love your body first, before anyone else will or can. I read once in a magazine that the best instrument to go about explicitly to try walking around in your room naked for a few hours. Even looking at your body contained by the mirror and find attributes on your body that you really like. If you like your breasts, write that down surrounded by a journal and say why you resembling them. If you like how shiny or long your hair is write that down. And so on beside other body parts. Until you have a good list of what you like and then numeral out the best way to show off these attributes so you can consider yourself more attractive. Hopefully that help. somebody wants attention with this request for information

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